![]() ![]() Kids who don’t have set times or places to get mundane tasks done have a tougher time learning to do the same when they are grown. Laura Markham, author of many books I recommend and founder of Aha! Parenting says, “Structure and routines teach kids how to constructively control themselves and their environments.” Starting off the day knowing exactly what needs be done versus running around the house like your hair is on fire or you’re being chased by an angry monkey (you pick!) can set the tone for a much calmer and more productive day for you and your kids. There is so much change in a child’s life that having some kind of daily structure can significantly reduce stress and anxiety. Routines are important for both kids and parents because they create predictability which leads to security and can aid in developing self-discipline. Naps (if still taking them) and Bedtimeīecause I don’t want to be more controlling than I already tend to be, we pretty much focus on having a solid morning and bedtime routine and chore schedules to allow for creativity and a little freedom.After School –Is it only me or does your house feel like a circus complete with acrobats when your kids get home from school?.I am no longer involved in my boys getting ready in the morning and it’s glorious. ![]() Morning – In my house, this is the most crucial routine we have.Here are daily routines that are often helpful to have: Mornings, after school and bedtime are the times of the day that we try to have some kind of routine, although flexible, in place. When I say routine, I’m referring to some kind of consistent schedule at a certain part of the day. We get to stay on Cloud Cuckoo Land with all the rainbows and puffy clouds. I go from Unikitty to Angry Kitty.īy having a routine for my kids to follow, there is a reduced amount of nagging to get things done before needing to head out the door. My son has challenges with Executive Functioning with a provisional diagnosis of ADHD so he needs a routine.Īlso, I have found that trying to rush out the door in the morning and making dinner are often my triggers. Tell me, what kind of routines do your kids use?įast forward nine years, routines are more imperative than ever. ![]()
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